May 4, 2008

To love again...

Most adults have been thru heartache at least once in their life. Many of us, more than once. How do you find the strength to love again? Giving yourself to someone completely is a very scary experience. The thought of being totally vulnerable makes many people run. History has blamed the "Run and Hide" theory on the man. If a woman can get a man to marry her it is suppose to be some great accomplishment because men are hard to tame...allegidly. I think its 50/50 nowadays because women have been burned one too many times by men. We are just as scared to committ as they are. However, you shouldnt live out life in fear of being hurt. Running scared everytime you let yourself feel for someone else is no way to live. No two men are alike just as no two woman are alike. I believe the Universe has chosen one perfect person for each of us. Its up to us to find them. It may take months or years but if you give up hope, your paths may never cross. As children, we are told fairy tales by our parents of a knight in shining armor that will come along and sweep us off of our feet to the land of "Make believe" and we will live happily every after. Do you think we should modify these stories to the land of reality or keep that dream alive in our children so that maybe, one day, they will find their Prince Charming? I dont know. If you give up hope, what do you have left? I say love again and long as it takes to find your happily every after. Life is what we make it. Lets do our best to make ourselves happy. Shall we??

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Search for truth and you shall find beauty, search for beauty and you shall find love, search for love and you shall find God, search for God and you shall have them all!

when u were born u were crying and everyone around was smiling, live your life so that when you die, u r smiling and everyone is around crying.

God did not promise days without pain; laughter without sorrow; sun without rain. But He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears; and light for our way.Let prayer be the key to open and close your day.

When God drops needles and pins along your path in life, don't avoid them. Pick them up and collect them. They were designed not to punish but to teach you to be stronger.

Every teardrop is precious so better make sure that if you drop some, its worth crying for 'cause you can never pick them and put them back to your eyes.

Love wisely!

When God closes a door, He opens a window... but at times He shuts both, worry not for he would tear down the roof... so His blessings could overflow. Good Luck and God Bless!