February 17, 2008

Cheaters

Id like to know what your definition of a cheater is....I know the actual act of cheating is a no brainer, but what about the online stuff? If your man visited porn sites when you werent around, would he be a cheater? What about if he put up a profile on a single site? Better yet, what if he responded to someone's ad on a site like Craigslist? He claimed he never actually did anything but how can you trust a word he says after finding out he has been trying to hook up with other women behind your back? If you had been with a guy, and thought you were happy, then found something like this out, what would you do? Is that technically cheating? How could you ever trust him again? My first husband had an affair at the end of our marriage, but since then, Ive never had to deal with this issue and Ive noticed a number of women complaining about what their men do online when they arent around. It made me curious. What is the status quo on being a cheater? With me, its a trust issue. If he is lieing to you about something like this then basically he cant be trusted. And wouldnt it make you wonder what else he has done behind your back? I dont know about you but I would feel like a fool. Its a shame when you put your heart and soul into a relationship and then end up getting slapped in the face. Maybe all men really are dogs. Although, I dont think thats true. I have been with some pretty great guys that would never do that to me or any other woman for that matter. I guess thats what seperates the real men from the self absorbed assholes only looking to get their rocks off. Boy, isnt that a fine line?

1 comment:

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