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Thirteen Ways To Love Your Lover
1. Leave them love notes – Hidden in their lunch, a book they are reading, the visor of their car, any place unexpected but that they will be sure to find it.
2. Bake them something they love - like brownies, then put their initials on the top with M&M’s.
3. Send them a text message – or an email that they will get first thing in the morning when they get to work…just a little something simple to let them know you are thinking about them. Send them an e-card. Here is a great website for that.
4. Give them your undivided attention – if they have a story to tell, give them your full attention. Look them in the eyes so they know you care.
5. Hold Hands – I think this is the sweetest sign of affection. Its like saying, “I love you and Im there for you.”
6. Flirt with each other– start the foreplay before the bedroom. Ive found if you tease each other all day, the sex that night is off the charts.
7. Wear something sexy - either on top or underneath your clothes. Sexy bra’s and panties can be a real turn on.
8. Snuggle – Watch a movie together and just touch each other.
9. Give them surprises – Buy them a card just because, or pick up a bag of their favorite brand of M&M’s.
10. Make out – Its hard to do this without it leading to sex but sometimes I just like to lay there and kiss…its one of my favorite things to do.
11. Always make them feel special – men have a tendency to have roaming eyes (well, some women do to)…but when you’re out with someone special, put that roaming eye away. That’s rude and disrespectful. A woman likes to feel like SHE is the only one rather than being in competition with all of the other women on the planet.
12. Have a picnic indoors (or in bed) – anyone for strawberries and chocolate?? Don’t forget the whip cream!!
13. Body massages – this can be very erotic and shows the other person that you love them and want them to feel good. Heck, even a good foot massage can say a lot without saying anything.
55 comments:
I like bake for them. This is a great idea for a list. Raising two kiddos, it gets easy to forget to do something special for each other!
Strawberries, chocolate and whipped cream always do it for me! ;-) Great list!
Thanks for visiting my Tolkien TT.
If my man would get home from this deployment, I would be happy to do all these!
Great T13! Mine is up and I love the banner!
love the list. i took notes. :-)
Now I'd like a massage!
#10 is my ultimate favorite! I told my husband that if he ever lost his penis, I'd be fine, as long as he had his lips and tongue! LOL
Very nice list. Happy TT! :)
By the way I linked you up in my blog hope it's okay :)
Now that's some list!
Someone is feeling amorous...lol! Fun list
That's great advice. Maybe someday I will be able to use it again! Haha!
I likethe bake for them too:) Nice list! Happy TT! Mines up too!
Now I am feeling a tad guilty, guess I gotta pay attention here.
Have a great week, sounds like you are off to a great start.
such a great list (especially #2); the way to man's heart - thru his stomach!! LOVE IT!
If I ever found Mr.Right, I'll keep his slippers warm for him and bake him whatever he'll like.
:)
Very good advice indeed! :)
Why bake when chocolate chip cookie dough tastes so good raw?
Happy TT, babe!
but...what's wrong with sex??!
Snuggling sounds good about now!
Janet...there is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with sex...lol....this is considered foreplay!!!
#4 is so easy to do. I wonder why it's so easy to forget to do it!
I should save this list for Valentine's day and present it to my Valentine!! What a lovely list--I've done some, but you given me great ideas!!
Great, loving TT and thanks for visiting!!
Wonderful ideas!
now if only I can fit them in around the 4 kids....
:)
I do a lot of them an so does he. I agree that's its very important to not take each other for granted... plus it's fun.... hehe :)
Great list! Happy TT!
Great ideas... am going to use them when my hubby arrives next week *wink, wink*! :o)
Some great ideas!! I miss having someone special to do these with!!
Oh yes, this is a fabulous list! #4 in particular is so important, and to that I would add saying "please" and "thank you"; courtesy is important so that you let your lover know you appreciate him and never take him for granted. :)
Happy T13, and thanks for visiting mine!
Interesting post. Will do some of it to make my lover love me more. Happy TT! :)
Great list..!! Husband appreciates it when I play games (PC or Wii) with him..
I'm so vain.
I probably think this blog is about me.
Probably..........
I just sent my hubbie an email at work. It wasn't a particularly amorous one though!
Thanks for visiting my TT, btw.
My hubby would like you to add "Scratch their back" as this is something I rarely do for him. LOL
This is an absolutely great list!
I already do 1, 2, 4 and 6 frequently. I need to do more of 8 and 9, especailly 8. We spend too much time in our separate chairs rather than sitting together. It's because we need a new couch, but I think we should make due with the old one a little more often. :)
Happy TT
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This is a fantastic list! I love the whole back rub thing. It's the way to win me over. :)
Those are some good ideas.
Try all this after 40 years of marriage with him asleep and snoring with an open mouth, the third teeth and rheumatism in the bones ! Lol !
Love the new banner, it's really cute.
And that's a good list, especially 2.
Very cool list of ideas... thanks!
Oh, to be young and so in love !!! we have been married for almost 23 years, but a nr 13 is always welcome :)
happy TT!
That is a great list. I like to get massages, but it is one of the things I hate to do the most, so I don't get them much because I would rather not reciprocate at any time. Luckily you have 12 other things on the list that I don't hate doing. Happy TT.
Ha! You young things make me laugh. The thought of sharing a meal in bed fills me with nothing but dismay, strawberries or no strawberries.
But never underestimate the power of small gestures in a long-term marriage.
Thanks for visiting Cockney Rob's T 13 at our blog; he needs all the encouragement he can get...
Pssst! When you get a moment, swing by my blog again. I've tagged you in my most recent post.
Great list! I think as newlyweds my husband and I do about all of these, but I know as our relationship progresses we'll have to be more intentional. Happy TT! Mine is things I'd rather do instead of grade papers.
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Wonderful list. I do some of those - but not all. Maybe it's time to try something new!!
Happy TT!
Great list! Being creative always pays off.
Happy TT.
great list...good things to remember...
(and I like the Navy banner!)
Some day I'll have someone to do those things with again ;-)
I love holding hands baking kissing suggling well all of it i guess:>
I'm going to have to check what's in the cough medicine I just took - my first read through left me wanting M&Ms. Reading it a second time I realised how much great advice you've got there :-)
Great ideas! It's good to try and keep the fires burning! LOL
Very cool list! I send my DH text messages all the time. But usually they say "Where are you? Why aren't you answering my call? Pick Up Supper!" LOL!
Happy TT
These all sound like great ideas to me.
Happy TT and thanks for visiting my list. :-)
What a lovely and romantic list ... :) Hubby bakes for me .. :) Happy TT!
Hmmm thanks the day I bump into him I will know from the day 1 how to keep the love alive between us :D
Happy TT
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In-bed picnics and body massages work for me :).
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